Friday, December 4

Is it wrong and selfish of me to just want to be loved?

"This never fails to amaze me! You have guys like you (who are clearly sensitive) and they're convinced that if something goes wrong that they're at fault especially in matter of love.I think it comes down to the people we select.

From your avatar your clearly a very attractive man and IMO hotter than hot! But i'm sure you either attract the wrong people or go for the wrong people. This happens to us all and i've had my fair share of experience in this field. I think it's all about "right place, right time".

Years ago I would have been able to identify VERY strongly wiht what your feeling and it was a nightmare! You need to go through life and experience this before you can get to a place that your comfortable in yourself. From your other questions and answers you're clearly a VERY intelligent man and this can be offputting to some but it is a quality that'll really benefit you later in life.For now just take each day as it comes :) You don't say how old you are but i'm guesing late teens/early 20's so you've got quiet alot to go through yet if this is the case. If you're older than I'm predicting your not the only one in that boat.....believe me! :) Your time will come......believe me!

As I mentioned above I went through a similar thing years ago. I was CONVINCED that nobody could take me as I was! To me I was emotional, cocky and a slut generally! After years of behaving like this I discovered that my emotions were my greatest selling points and I was cocky cause I didn't want people to think I was weak and I was promiscious because I felt unattractive and would just take what I could get! This was all a fascade though because I know now that i'm not as ugly as I imagine (I still argue it though!) and am quiet popular so I must be doing something right! :)

So if I can do it you can certainly do it! :) And for the record if I were to meet you in a gay bar right now you'd be getting hit on right now! :) Anyway, I hope this helps and I wish you the very best of luck :)"

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